Part
of becoming an adult is realizing the difference between confidence and
conceit. There is a line that separates the two, and when you were a
child it was okay, maybe even typical for you to do so as a child, but
as an adult it becomes quite abnormal and unsafe.
Your Job
To
be honest, majority of adults dislike their jobs, where they work and
basically everything related to their jobs. They only get up and go to
work to pay bills and feed their families. If you are one of the lucky
ones and you love your job, where you work and everything about your job
with its great pay, don’t chatter away to every tom, dick and harry
about it. Don’t be naïve and expect the rest of the world to feel the
same awesome way you do about yourself and your good fortune.
Your ‘Ride’
Sharing
photos of the vehicle(s) you drive all over social media is more of
what a teenager does in unrestrained excitement. What makes you an adult
is your ability to exercise restraint where necessary. Aside being
highly unsafe, unless you have enthusiast friends, you are likely going
to be alone in your excitement. Avoid unnecessary envy and let the sense
of accomplishment you feel at such a nice feat be enough for you.
Intimate Moments with your Partner
This
is quite self-explanatory. As an adult is important to know when you
are going past the limit and being childish with showing off your
partner. Your close friends and family might be overjoyed and extremely
happy for you, but the rest of the world might not care as much and be
irritated or more inclined to be judgmental of the two of you. The best
thing you can do is to simply enjoy your partner’s company and let them
know how much you appreciate them.
Your ‘Night to Remember’
In
your early and maybe middle twenties, bragging about your many
escapades is nice. But as you grow older, it starts to sound childish
and makes you seem like you have issues with confidence and
self-validation. At a point in adulthood, your escapades become
experiences that become lessons you teach to others rather than brag
about.
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