101 TIPS FOR GUYS AND
GIRLS BY DANIEL FRIDAY
BY DANIEL FRIDAY
This article
was written to help young single youths and mostly ladies to help them build
their future.
1. You can tell what direction a
person is going by the type of friends they keep. They will be just like their
friends.
2. Never go out with a guy who does
not want to come to your house.
3. The way you dress determines your
value. Dress like a ho‟ and you will be treated like a ho‟. Men are stimulated
by
sight.
4. God never deals with your body.
He tells you to control your own desires.
5. God will never zip up your pants
or put on your clothes back on for you.
6. Never enter a relationship to
change somebody. The worst place to change someone is in the context of a
relationship
7. Do not advertise what is not for
sale. Keep hidden secret and every part of your body that are designed to be
private.
8. Guys take affection more than the
ladies. An innocent gesture by a female may be taken as sexual interest.
9. Never go out with a guy who will
not go to church with you, If he loves you he would go to church with you and
do everything that is important.
10. Be careful of a guy who would
come to your house and meet your parents and act the part of a good boy only to
take advantage of you later.
11. If he or she says “ if you love
me you will do it” this is a clear sign that they don‟t love you. People who
love you don‟t pressurize you into doing something you did not
plan on doing.
12. Never get into a relationship
with a person ho has no clear plan for the future. You can drift by yourself.
13. If a guy begs you and coerces
you for sex, Chances are there that he has done it to many other girls.
14. Sex is not a treasured
experience for most males. Males value sex much less than females do.
15. Avoid putting yourself in a
position to be a victim of date rape. Keep yourself from private situations
especially private bedroom situations.
16. Alcohol and drugs are a
prescription for sexual compromise virgins should stay away from alcohol.
17. Aids can spread by kissing
although it may not be a typical occurrence.
18. There is no such thing as a
Christian hormone. All humans have the same hormones.
19. Choose to go out only with
persons you believe you can live with in a marriage.
20. Look for qualities in others
that you like others to see in you.
21. Never try to buy someone‟s
affection. The more you spend the more you will
actually loose.
22. Good looks are important but
good character is more important.
23. There is nothing wrong with
making yourself physically attractive as long as it does not become an
obsession.
24. Develop the eating habits now
that will cause you to remain physically attractive for a long time.
25. Be patient with yourself and
others. Being young means having the opportunity to change and grow.
26. Love takes time to be understood
and developed. Never rush love.
27. The bible is still the best
source of information when it comes to sex and relationships. After all, it came
from the manufacturer.
28. Never get married just because
you have problems with sexual control. Get married if you are having problems
with sexual control with the person you plan to marry anyhow.
29. Before you buy a new car,
Purchase real estate. This will be a valuable asset whenever you get married.
30. Count the cost before you take
your clothes off. Are you willing to pay the price?
31. Infatuation is often disguised
as love but is disappointedly not the same.
32. Sex is never without consequence.
Sex is always tied to some other responsibilities.
33. Premarital sex is never free.
Someone always pays in one way or another.
34. Don‟t let others buy you
expensive gifts. They will always want something for
their money.
35. Be careful of guys who make big
promises. In most cases they cannot and will never deliver.
36. The younger you are the further
you should stay away from „relationship commitments‟
37. You only have one body. If you
damage it there is no replacement
38. The aids virus many times
smaller than sperm. You can get aids as much more quickly than you can get
pregnant.
39. Sexually transmitted diseases
have no socioeconomic or class preference. They affect everyone at the same
time.
40. Pregnancy can occur from your
very first sexual experience.
41. Penetration is not necessary for
pregnancy. Sexual fluids can enter the vagina without actual penetration.
42., Those who give into sexual
pressure now lose out later in life. Those who hold out now win when it counts
most.
43. The most valuable commodity is
one that is unused. The same applies to your sexuality.
44. Most men who are sexually active
still prefer a virgin when they want to get married.
45. A good education will take a
young person more further and result in better relationships than premature
sex.
46. Animals have sex by instinct.
Humans are supposed to have sex by choice.
47. Sexual intercourse is not
unique. Anyone can have sex but not everyone can
experience “right sex”
48. Sex and love are very different.
Sex is a desire (appetite). Love is a decision (and commitment)
49. Sex never causes people to love
each other. If sex caused love the world would be a very lovely place.
50. Love can be expressed sexually
in the right time and place (marriage)
51. Love creates feelings, but love
is not a feeling. Don‟t let the feelings lead you into
believing it is love.
52. True love comes from the author
of love. All other brands of love are all imitations.
53. Experience is not the best
teacher when it comes to sex. Truth is the best teacher
54. The fastest ticket to misery is
to be in a hurry for love. Many young people have been hurt by being in a
hurry.
55. Looking at a person‟s parents
gives you the good indication of what type of
person he or she will become.
56. Sexual stimulation only creates
appetite for more sexual stimulations.
57. True friends are two people who
respect conviction.
58. Always let the opposite sex know
what your convictions are regarding sex and relationships.
59. Listening to „love songs create
desire for‟ love. Be careful what you feed your
mind. whatever you take in will
always show up.
60. Most of the messages in media
today about love are in fact messages abut lust.
61. Learn to make friends and not lovers,
Friend can become great lovers in time.
62. Love is patient and kind , not
selfish. Be careful of impatient love.
63. Love seeks the best in others.
Can you say that about the person who is interested in you?
64. There is no school for love and
relationships. You have to train yourself before you enter.
65. If you have failed sexually that
does not make a failure. Get up and move on you can RE-VIRGINIZE
66. Men do not prefer women who have
had babies for other men.
67. Soap operas are one of the worst
sources of information on relationships.
68. Styles and fashions change but
standards remain the same. There is nothing wrong with fashion wrong with
fashion as long as it does not compromise your standard.
69. It is much easier to get to know
the real person as friend than as a lover.
70. Time is one of your greatest
assets and greatest liabilities. Use time as assets by not rushing into
commitments.
71. The more you know about the
purpose of sex the less likely you are to abuse it.
72. Always look at the private life
of ad-visors. If they are advising your relationships and theirs are not
working, You need new ad-visors.
73. You can tell the role of a thing
by it‟s design. Men are designed as givers and
women receivers.
74. If you are a female learn to be
feminine. If you are male, Learn to be masculine. Most males want a masculine
female and most female want feminine male.
75. Learning manners and how to
treat the opposite sex is good while you are young. This can cause great
benefit to your relationships for years to come.
76. Never confuse having a good time
with being in Love. A good time is just that a good period of time.
77. The male ego craves praise and
positive strokes. Give with caution
78. Women will always be more
delicate than males. Give them adequate attention.
79. A woman is naturally more
emotional. Don‟t be confused by her emotional
fluctuations
80. Infatuation is when you are
madly in love by yourself and only you know it.
81. Choose to be interested in
someone of the same similar background with similar goals in life.
82. Entertainers make extremely poor
role models. There is not a more confused group on earth like celebrities
83. A condom can be characterized as
a „con‟ job into being „dumb‟, If
used as a cure for all sexual
protection.
84. There is no such thing as a safe
sex. Sex can never be safer with certain precautions but sex is never safe.
There are always risks involved.
85. It is better to wait to have sex
than to have to go through constant feeling of guilt after the act.
86. Trust is most important in
relationship. If you can‟t trust someone then you have
no relationship.
87. If you „fall‟ in love you can
just as quickly „fall‟ out of love.
88. When you arte young it is more
important to get an education and develop yourself as an individual than it is
to win the approval of others.
89. The bible says out of the
abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Whatever is on the inside of a person
will eventually come out of his or her mouth.
90. Only God know and can really
help us to become the best. We need to put our faith in God to help us deal
with the opposite sex.
91. Never play around relationships
by leading the opposite sex on. The end result could be problems for you and
the other person.
92. The best things in life are
often the most simple. A kind word and consideration can work wonders.
93. The best thing to do in a
difficult sexual situation is to RUN like Joseph in the bible. In fact, The
bible says RUN away from lusts.
94. The most difficult relationship
is a long distance relationship (where persons are far away in different
locations)
95. Do not enter a relationship with
someone who has a completely different
ideology. The bible states “
How can two persons walk together
if th
ey don‟t agree?
96. Self control means you have
control of yourself. You cannot ask anyone else to help you control yourself.
97. Always talk to someone older
than yourself who you can trust. They have been there before even if not the
exact circumstances.
98. Your peers are often the worst
counselors. This is often like the blind leading the blind.
99. The only thing wrong with being
a virgin is there are not enough people who are smart enough to make choice.
100. Do not judge the opposite sex
by physical appearance. The cutest or most handsome is not always the best.
101. Flirting is an invitation for
trouble. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
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